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If it works for marking the messages as read in public mucs as you explained in another GH issue, I guess you could send them anyway but at least silence the related errors in the UI.
FWIW this is what the Conversations MUC look like when I open it (and everytime someone sends a message).
This results in error messages in any MUC that does now allow MUC pm.
As per the XEP: